Marilyn Devonish - Tranceformational Change Coach

The Secret DVD teacher Marie Diamond live in London

ADVANCE NOTICE: Secret Teacher Marie Diamond Live in London - Thursday 20th August 2009

To reserve your place and book a ticket visit: http://hubpresents.eventbrite.com/

The Secret DVD created a major buzz when through word of mouth it became one of the biggest selling DVDs back in 2006.

It bought the concept of The Law of Attraction (or Cosmic Ordering for those who follow Noel Edmonds and Deal or No Deal) to the masses and dramatically changed the way that many people thought about themselves, their lives, and the part they play in shaping their future and destiny.

The only European teacher to feature in The Secret was Feng Shui Master Marie Diamond.  

I have known of Marie for many years as she has done a lot of work with a friend of mine, Paul Scheele.  In summer 2008 Marie was in London running a series of Feng Shui workshops and HUB (Humanity Unites Brilliance) meetings so I decided that it would be a good opportunity to go along and finally meet her in person.  The rest, as they say is history.

For many reasons, which I will tell you about at our meeting on 20th August, it was a life changing experience.

Marie Diamond will be making a rare appearance in London on Thursday 20th August 2009.  She will be speaking at our HUB Igniter and sharing how both The Secret and HUB have been instrumental in allowing her to reach her goal to impact 500 million people.  You will also have the opportunity to find out how to start using Diamond Feng Shui to make dramatic positive changes in your life.

During this informal and transformational evening Marie will share with you:

• How she came to be the only European teacher to star in The Secret DVD
• Why she joined HUB and how we can all step into our brilliance
• Simple ways to use Feng Shui to enhance your life, health, finances and relationships
• How you can get involved and join our HUB team

The event will also unfold according to your energy and questions so what we discuss will be influenced by those in attendance on the night.  We will also endeavour to allow time for book signings and photographs.

This evening is open to all, whether you are a member of HUB or not, but given the rate at which our team is growing you will need to book your tickets fast as spaces are limited and about 32% have already been taken as I write this notification!!

If you would like to be part of this amazing evening you can book your space at: http://hubpresents.eventbrite.com/

I look forward to seeing you on 20th August!

Marilyn Devonish

HUB Founding Arc Angel  www.hubglobal.hubhub.org  

Director Trance Formations Limited  www.tranceformationslimited.com  

For more information about Marie Diamond visit: http://www.mariediamond.com/cmd.php?af=1035743

Hypno Dieting the old new celebrity craze

Your Guide to Hypno Dieting by Hypnotherapist Marilyn Devonish

Lily Allen is looking good.  Much better than some of the pictures that have graced the press in more recent times, and it is said that she owes it all to Hypno-Dieting.  So, what is this new fangled therapy that is taking Hollywood and LA by storm?  It is, wait for it, dieting using hypnotherapy!!

Already a favourite amongst those of us in the Hypnosis, Time Line Therapy and NLP world, hypno dieting appears to be the new craze.  It uses a combination of past and future work to identify why people overeat and setting up new strategies for the future.

Many people feel that they are their own worst enemy and that their mind or sub conscious is working against them.

Hypno-Dieting In a Nutshell

Of course you would go into the process in more detail during a session, but below are some of the key steps involved in getting your mind and body to work together in achieving your health and slimming goals:

1. Identify your ideal size and weight.  
2. Visualise how  you want to look.  Think about how you want to feel. Imagine the clothes that you'll be wearing and how you will look and feel in them.  How will you be moving and carrying yourself etc.
3. Keep a record and note of what you eat so that you become conscious of the types of food and quantities.  Something that I do with my smoking cessation clients is to also get them to record what they were thinking, feeling and doing before, during and after their cigarette, so apply the same principles to food as this will help  you uncover any automatic triggers or emotional drivers.
4. Identify the underlying reasons for your overeating.  In Time Line Therapy terms we would call this the root cause.  What is it that causes you to eat and have things get out of control?
5. Get clear regarding your beliefs around food, your sense of self, how you look, and your sense of worth.  What you want to identify here are any limiting beliefs or negative emotions that might be sabotaging your progress.  For instance, if you ultimately don't believe you are worthy enough, why would you bother taking the time to eat healthily or really take care of yourself?
6. Set new programmes and patterns.  Once you've identified any patterns that might lead to self sabotage or unwanted behaviours resolve them.  This is where I would use a combination of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Hypnosis to work with re-programming subconscious thoughts and creating new patterns, strategies and behaviours.
7. Change any negative associations.  Does the thought of exercising fill you with dread?  Does the sight of brocolli make you feel deprived or as though you are missing out?  Do you believe that you lack the willpower or motivation to really make lasting health changes?  This is a good place to do a sub modalities belief change and set a some physical anchors so that you start feeliing more positive and naturally energised when it comes to making changes.  EFT can also work well for breaking habitual cycles and patterns.

In addition, take it slowly and go for the little and often approach rather than attempting to do everything at once as this can simply lead you to a place of overwhelm.

For more information about the tools and techniques outlined in this post visit www.tranceformationslimited.com 

About Marilyn Devonish

Marilyn Devonish is Certified Trainer of Hypnosis, a Certified Trainer of NLP, a Life & Executive Coach, Certified Trainer of Time Line Therapy and a Huna and EFT Practitioner.  She has been working with one to one clients for the past 8 years and offers both face to face and telephone coaching sessions.  Marilyn is also a Media Expert with Psychologies Magazine and regularly speaks at shows and appears on TV and radio.

Web: http://www.tranceformationslimited.com 

E-mail: marilyn@tranceformationslimited.com 

Tel: +44 1923 337282

Jade Goody Cancer News - Do you believe in the Mind-Body Connection?

I first contaced Jade Goody's agent on 28th January 2007 to ask if she would be interested in doing some Coaching around the Celebrity Big Brother fiasco which surrunded Jade and Shilpa.

I work as an NLP Trainer and Trainer of Time Line Therapy so have been working with people for the past 8 years in enhacing their communication skills and facing up to and resolving negative emotions and unhelpful patterns, beliefs and behaviours from the past.

My offer was declined but I remained curious about the longer term effects of the public backlash from an energetic and health point of view.

In health circles, it is commonly known that cancer tends to manifest 18-24 months after a significant emotional event or some kind of trauma if there is no proper resolution around the event(s). Given that I contacted Jade's agent exactly 19 months ago, this pattern seems to be holding true.

Cancer of the uterus and surrounding area is often related to self devaluation.  Given the harsh public backlash that erupted 19 months ago, I suspect that Jade wasn't feeling quite so great about herself.

What can you do to resolve your emotional stuff?

1. The first thing to do is pay attention to this issues which are still hanging around well beyond their 'sell by' date.  It's natural to be upset about an unpleasant event, but if you find that months later it is still metaphorically 'eating away' at you, resolve it.

2. Identify the root cause and limiting beliefs that support the problem.  What are is really going on?  What do you believe about yourself in relation to the problem?   What's the purpose in still holding onto the negative emotions?

3. Get what you need to learn from the event and make the necessary changes in your life, behaviour, mindset or approach to ensure that you don't just keep repeating the same patterns.

When I am working with clients we would typically use a mixture of NLP, Time Line Therapy, Hypnosis, Huna, DNA Theta Healing and EFT to resolve long term emotional issues.

Self forgiveness is also important, however, this can only truely come about when you have gained a sense of perspective and made the necessary changes.

I wish Jade a speedy recovery.

Marilyn Devonish, NLP Trainer, Life & Executive Coach, Hypnotherapist, Certified Trainer of Time Line Therapy, Hune, Theta Healing, Reiki and EFT Practitioner

www.tranceformationslimited.com

Geri Halliwell hears 'Voices'

Wow, Gerri was looking great in the media recently as she posed in her swimsuit for Hello Magazine.

As well as sharing her natural insecurities about wearing a bikini for the press for the first time after a 7 year cover up, she also spoke about the warring inner voices which would rise up and erode her confidence: "that voice is always there waiting to tell me, "You are not good enough, do better," but I'm more conscious of it. 'It used to be the loudest voice in my head but now I just tell it, "Shut up..."

If we are honest, there are times where the internal voice and inner dialogue seems to take hold. Often, it creeps up at the most inappropriate times, when you are feeling most vulnerable, and seems to take control.

People often describe it as being another 'part' of themselves or as though there are 2 opposing forces, one which supports you (usually the quieter and weaker of the 2), and the other that is determined to tell you just how much of a failure you are and erode your self confidence or make you doubt your decisons.

So what can you do to banish it??

From a Time Line Therapy point of view, a common intervention is to do a Parts Integration.  We would determine exactly why the voice is attempting to sabotage you, and integrate it with the positive, supportive, encouraging voice.

Coaching Tips

1. Identify where the voice is located (for those of you already practicing NLP do a Submodalities elicitation) and identify all of the key characteristics.
2. Identify the characteristics of the supportive or encouraging voice.
3. Start changing (or mapping across) the characteristics so that the supportive voice becomes the most dominant.

Also do some work to identify any limiting beliefs that fuel the negative voice.  Once you resolve those, the power behind the voice is easily diminished.  Things to look out for a beliefs such as:

• I'm not good enough
• I can't do it
• I'm not worthy
• People like me will never be able to do that

Shelving the inner voice.  Thanking it for it's opinion, and exploring it's purpose can also help you regain control.

Marilyn Devonish, TraceFormational Mind Coach, Hypnotherapist & Certified Trainer of Time Line Therapy

www.tranceformationslimited.com

Janet Jackson blames junk food lover for weight gain

Janet Jackson's long running battle of the bulge has reared it's ugly head again, this time blaming her music producer boyfriend for having too much junk food in the house.

Of course having access to and eating foods which offer little nutritional value has a part to play, wouldn't necessarily be the sole cause.  If it really did boil down to simply having access to food, we would be an entire Nation and World of heavies.

The root cause for constant weight gain and yo-yo dieting often runs deeper than access to a well stocked fridge.

When I am working with clients with long term issues around food, we would start by exploring key issues such as:

• What does eating get for them or allow them to do?
• How do they feel and what do they believe about themselves?
• What does food mean to them?
• When did they decide that food was the answer?
• What patterns have they noticed occuring?

Depriving oneself of food simply puts focus on the very thing that you are trying to avoid.  Anyone with children will know that as soon as you make something out of bounds, that which is denied becomes the often obsessive focus of attention.  The adult brain isn't much different, and the more you focus on 'not eating' or avoiding certain foods, the more strongly from and NLP point of view it becomes anchored in your mind.

In the life that Janet leads, there will always be an abundance of food available so it may be time to tackle the underlying issues so that food becomes somthing that she uses for nutrition but she can take it or leave it once her basic needs are met, and create a healthier relationship with food.

Marilyn Devonish, Hypnotherapist, Life Coach, Diamond Minding Specialist

www.tranceformationslimited.com