I first contaced Jade Goody's agent on 28th January 2007 to ask if she would be interested in doing some Coaching around the Celebrity Big Brother fiasco which surrunded Jade and Shilpa.
I work as an NLP Trainer and Trainer of Time Line Therapy so have been working with people for the past 8 years in enhacing their communication skills and facing up to and resolving negative emotions and unhelpful patterns, beliefs and behaviours from the past.
My offer was declined but I remained curious about the longer term effects of the public backlash from an energetic and health point of view.
In health circles, it is commonly known that cancer tends to manifest 18-24 months after a significant emotional event or some kind of trauma if there is no proper resolution around the event(s). Given that I contacted Jade's agent exactly 19 months ago, this pattern seems to be holding true.
Cancer of the uterus and surrounding area is often related to self devaluation. Given the harsh public backlash that erupted 19 months ago, I suspect that Jade wasn't feeling quite so great about herself.
What can you do to resolve your emotional stuff?
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The first thing to do is pay attention to this issues which are still hanging around well beyond their 'sell by' date. It's natural to be upset about an unpleasant event, but if you find that months later it is still metaphorically 'eating away' at you, resolve it.
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Identify the root cause and limiting beliefs that support the problem. What are is really going on? What do you believe about yourself in relation to the problem? What's the purpose in still holding onto the negative emotions?
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Get what you need to learn from the event and make the necessary changes in your life, behaviour, mindset or approach to ensure that you don't just keep repeating the same patterns.
When I am working with clients we would typically use a mixture of NLP, Time Line Therapy, Hypnosis, Huna, DNA Theta Healing and EFT to resolve long term emotional issues.
Self forgiveness is also important, however, this can only truely come about when you have gained a sense of perspective and made the necessary changes.
I wish Jade a speedy recovery.
Marilyn Devonish, NLP Trainer, Life & Executive Coach, Hypnotherapist, Certified Trainer of Time Line Therapy, Hune, Theta Healing, Reiki and EFT Practitioner
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